tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-587373134783734451.post3010847488189431966..comments2023-03-26T23:36:39.328-04:00Comments on the infertile bird: This isn't MeJenny Wrenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06487538134256471025noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-587373134783734451.post-87541068224346821002011-08-06T09:47:52.633-04:002011-08-06T09:47:52.633-04:00Hi Kirstyloo! Wow, I do all that? Thank you so m...Hi Kirstyloo! Wow, I do all that? Thank you so much for those nice words. I'm blushing. It makes me so happy to think the things I write might be helping others who are in a similar place. It's been so helpful for me have a place where I can speak honestly about all of it, even the not-so-pretty stuff.Jenny Wrenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06487538134256471025noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-587373134783734451.post-76826058058199205922011-08-05T22:47:39.883-04:002011-08-05T22:47:39.883-04:00Anonymous - I'm really happy that this blog ha...Anonymous - I'm really happy that this blog has been helpful to Ms. Wren as she seems like such a wonderful person. I would also like to point out that it has been really helpful for those who are in the middle of their IF. Ms. Wren gives a voice to some of the things that we feel but can't express...either because its unpopular or because we're not insightful. Thank you Mrs. Wren for your honesty! And strangely enough thank you for your hope! I was you 3 years ago! Kirstyloo (from infertility forum)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-587373134783734451.post-67365300728506809242011-08-02T21:15:25.004-04:002011-08-02T21:15:25.004-04:00If these feelings consume you and rule your world,...<i>If these feelings consume you and rule your world, you could possibly cause damage to your marriage to Mr. Wren</i><br /><br />Rest assured, this is not a problem.<br /><br /><i>...you have to learn to manage them and not let them interfere in your day-to-day life.</i><br /><br />I appreciate your concern, but um...I think that's the point of this blog. And while this has been a very painful time for Jenny Wren, I think she's doing great and I think this blog has helped her.Mr. Wrenhttp://theinfertilebird.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-587373134783734451.post-81293751042484821532011-08-01T13:07:08.107-04:002011-08-01T13:07:08.107-04:00Wow, I had to stop and take a couple of deep breat...Wow, I had to stop and take a couple of deep breaths before responding to your comment, Anonymous. Thanks for coming here and judging me. Comments like yours are supremely unhelpful and the primary reason why I have not been talking about my feelings with any of my friends or colleagues who might be tempted to tell me I should just "get over it". Thanks, also, for telling me that I need to learn to manage my feelings, as if I didn't know that...Hello, that's EXACTLY what this blog is for. It's a safe place for me to vent my emotions so that they don't interfere with my daily life. <br /><br />And my relationship with Mr Wren is just fine, thank you VERY much.Jenny Wrenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06487538134256471025noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-587373134783734451.post-13761832251886110362011-08-01T11:28:19.285-04:002011-08-01T11:28:19.285-04:00If you don’t reconcile this situation within yours...If you don’t reconcile this situation within yourself, the only person that you will be hurting is yourself. If these feeling consume you and rule your world, you could possibly cause damage to your marriage to Mr. Wren and your other personal and professional relationships. The hurt, anger, and resentment will always be there, but you have to learn to manage them and not let them interfere in your day-to-day life.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-587373134783734451.post-80471496639615672502011-07-28T17:25:59.680-04:002011-07-28T17:25:59.680-04:00Thanks! I love wrens, they're such cheerful a...Thanks! I love wrens, they're such cheerful and lively little birds. Kind of the opposite of me right now, but hopefully someday I'll be a happy songbird again...Jenny Wrenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06487538134256471025noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-587373134783734451.post-35739031601475199662011-07-27T07:52:01.041-04:002011-07-27T07:52:01.041-04:00Thank you! I also wanted to tell you how much I li...Thank you! I also wanted to tell you how much I like your picture on here of the Carolina Wren. We have a nesting pair in the garage and every morning they love to fly around making their tea-kettle tea-kettle tea-kettle calls. ADKWMN39Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-587373134783734451.post-44275835886529744172011-07-26T19:27:20.301-04:002011-07-26T19:27:20.301-04:00Hey, ADK! Thanks for stopping by and commenting. ...Hey, ADK! Thanks for stopping by and commenting. You are so right. Part of what keeps me from giving up is the fear of having gone through all this and having nothing to show for it except an empty bank account and a bitter heart. Your cycle is coming up...I pray this is your time and that you will soon have a baby to replace all that bitterness with love!Jenny Wrenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06487538134256471025noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-587373134783734451.post-9550548964336102572011-07-26T19:01:27.150-04:002011-07-26T19:01:27.150-04:00Oh how I can relate! I had been through ALOT in m...Oh how I can relate! I had been through ALOT in my life before dealing with infertility and I have always thought well at least I am still a kind and compassionate person who is not full of bitterness and hate. Well three years of infertility treatments have turned me into what much more devastating tragedies had not done. I have lost my patience with people, I am not as kind as I used to be and do not smile as much as I used to and I am so bitter at times I become unbearable to myself. I think at this point after three years of battering my body and spending enough $$ to choke a horse that the bitterness is what keeps me going. It's the I'll be damned if I am not going to get a baby M!?*@$#%ker! one way or another it eventually is going to be me because if it is not I dare not think of spending the rest of my life with this bitter person I have become. ADKWMN39 (from infertility forum)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com