the infertile bird

Miscarriage of justice by Lina Scarfi First off, who do I think I am, attempting to write a miscarriage survival guide?  The jury is st...

Hi friends.  I've added a new page to this blog - see the link up there that says "our story?"  I wrote it for anyone who...

My doctor is not a unicorn, and this is not a fairy tale.  If it were, I would be the fair lady banished to the Barren Wasteland and ...

Anna Jarvis, the founder of Mother's Day Based on the comments I received on yesterday's post, and the fact that somebody out t...

Awesome t-shirt idea from the Five Camels blog . Hope they don't mind that I stole it cause I kind of love it. Mother's Da...

Oh hi, I'm back. I stopped writing because for a long time I had no news to report.  Then, when I did have news to report, quite ...

Infertility killed my social life.

For the past few weeks I've felt like a high-school girl with an unrequited crush.  I've been constantly  checking my phone, wonder...

Infertility stole my summer.  Which sucks, because it's my favorite season.  I love sunshine.  I'm convinced that I have chlorophy...

Sunday was my dad's birthday. It didn't go as planned. Have you seen the movie (500) Days of Summer ?  It's one of my all-t...

 Life's a beach.  Yesterday was a bad day.   I left work early, on the verge of a nervous breakdown.  I had one of those moments w...

If you're just getting to know me here, you might think I've always been like this: indignant and self-pitying, angry at the world....

"Normal is not something to aspire to, it's something to get away from." - Jodie Foster When I was in high school, I pinne...

I've been reading up on grief lately.  I knew there were five stages, and had always thought that you passed through them sequentiall...

It's all my fault.  We found out today that there was nothing wrong with our baby.  It was chromosomally normal.  (It is, however, sti...

In two hours, Mr Wren and I will go to the fertility clinic for yet another WTF meeting.  It will be the 8th time that we have dragged our ...

and I hate this baby too I hate your baby.   I hate your precious little birth announcements and the hospital room photos of you nuzzlin...

  I watched exactly 5 minutes of the film Jennifer's Body and what I saw was this scene, where she projectile vomits a river of ta...